When the pain isn’t physical

This scene near Coober Pedy is a peaceful reminder of the need to take time out, says Janet who does Bowen Therapy in the town

For a long time, most of the people I saw came in with something straightforward. A rolled ankle. A stiff shoulder. A bruise from a fall. In the last few years, that’s shifted. More and more, what brings someone in isn’t a clear physical injury at all. It’s something harder to name.

I see people carrying grief in their shoulders. I see anxiety sitting in someone’s jaw, clenched tight without them even realising it. I’ve worked with people dealing with depression, and with people who have been through periods of real emotional crisis, including thoughts of suicide. I don’t say that to be dramatic. It’s simply part of what I see, and I think it deserves to be spoken about honestly rather than left out of the conversation entirely.

Remember, I am not a psychologist – I am trained to listen differently

I’m not a psychologist, and Bowen therapy isn’t a replacement for the support a trained mental health professional can offer. What I can offer is this: a gentle, unhurried space where your body is allowed to be exactly as tense, or as tired, or as overwhelmed as it actually is, without needing to explain or justify that to me.

Sometimes people are surprised by what comes up during a session. A tight spot releases, and unexpectedly, so does something else. I can’t promise that will happen for you, and I’d be doing you a disservice if I did. What I can say is that many people find some relief in being treated as a whole person, not just a list of symptoms to be managed one at a time.

If you’re going through something heavy right now, please don’t wait for a Bowen session to be your only source of support. Speak to your doctor, or to a mental health professional, or to someone you trust. I’m glad to be one part of how you look after yourself. I was never meant to be the only part.

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